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 DeUndra Taft
Speaker | Author | Psychotherapist

 Teaching Women  How to Navigate Life – Before They Have to Learn the Hard Way.

Stop wasting years on BS.

Get the clarity, confidence, and real-life strategies you should’ve been taught YEARS ago

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 DeUndra Taft

 Before You Learn the Hard Way: 

Teaching Women in Their 20s & 30s to Build a Life They Don't Have to Recover From Later.

Absolutely, the FUCK NOT 

is the mantra of Before You Learn the Hard Way.

Absolutely, the FUCK NOT will prevent women from playing small, accepting less, remaining in toxic relationships & second-guessing themselves. 

 

Absolutely, the FUCK NOT  is the code we live by.

 

It’s a Lifestyle, a Mindset, &  a Movement.

  

Let me welcome you to the

ABSOLUTELY, THE FUCK NOT Era!

Do we let people play in our faces?

Absolutely, The FUCK NOT!

Do we walk around with low self-esteem and entertain negative thoughts about ourselves?

Absolutely, The FUCK NOT!

Do we beg people to love us, accept us, or stay in relationships with us?

Absolutely, The FUCK NOT!

Do we trust other people with our sexual, mental, or financial health?

Absolutely, The FUCK NOT!

Do we settle for bare-minimum effort, half-ass apologies, and inconsistent behavior?

Absolutely, The FUCK NOT!

 

If you’re ready to stop learning the hard way, start standing on your standards, and move through life like you KNOW you deserve more—

 Text NOPE to 713-510-0229 to join our community of like minded women.

NICE TO MEET YOU

I'm DeUndra "Dee" Taft

I’m just a Jesus girl with zero tolerance for BS. I’ll drop a few curse words, sip a frozen margarita or lemon drop, and vibe to trap music—all while teaching women how to stop playing themselves and start moving smarter.

I’ve seen firsthand how life humbles you when you don’t have the right guidance. That’s why I don’t sugarcoat anything. I talk about the stuff your mama, older sister, and aunt didn’t tell you—but should have.

 

Before You Learn the Hard Way 

Get the clarity, confidence, and real-life strategies you should’ve been taught YEARS ago.

Before You Learn the Hard Way Life School for Women

Gain the wisdom and skills to navigate life confidently—before experience makes you learn the hard way.

 

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Girl, we are NOT playing small anymore. Every week, you’re getting the wake-up call you need—raw, real, and completely UNFILTERED.

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